i've been in this simplify mode. and christmas is something i wish to just make sweet, simple, and enjoyable. including collecting the christmas tree! last year we found this great family owned small tree farm that had beautiful trees and very cheap. it was the most pleasant experience we had had in a long time. excited to head back this year we loaded up today to get our tree..... ...then you know the scene in the national lampoons christmas where they drive and drive and drive and drive on their way to cut down the tree. that was us today. all was rather joyful until we discovered our beloved tree farm no longer existed. one child wanted to get a tree no matter what, so hubby sucked it up and headed our car towards "christmasfest" to get a rather expensive tree with the complete experience. it was during the drive when all those inside the car fell apart. she was pushing his buttons, he was biting back. the hubby was f...