...mapboy and princess!!! the kids wanted to go to the library this morning. i let them know we would not go until their chores were completed. all was going well!! they were buzzing right through the chore list. then they both got to the final chore: 15 minutes of tieing shoes!!!
this is a chore because neither of my kids have mastered this skill! princess is still 4 but we are working on it now. mapboy just turned 7 and should have been doing this for a few years, but no, he cannot!
this is how the 15 minutes went:
princess: mom, i made the first cross all by myself!
mom, i made a bunny ear!
mom, my thumb is stuck!
mapboy: i don't know how to make a cross (stomps foot)
princess: oh...there is my thumb! now, i chase my bunny right?
around and around and around i go!!!
mom to mapboy: sweetie, just take this end and loop it through.
mapboy: there is no loop, i can't hold the end, i'm not going to do this!
princess: look!! i did it!!
(she had made a great attempt and i was proud of her)
can i try it again????
mapboy: more stomping of the foot, more shouts of frustration, i will never be able to do this. NEVER, I SAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ding ding ding...
princess: wait, i want to finish again!
mapboy: i'm going to my room
ME: this perfectionistic thing is absurd!!!!!! why won't he even just try?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
oh the joys of motherhood!!!
this is a chore because neither of my kids have mastered this skill! princess is still 4 but we are working on it now. mapboy just turned 7 and should have been doing this for a few years, but no, he cannot!
this is how the 15 minutes went:
princess: mom, i made the first cross all by myself!
mom, i made a bunny ear!
mom, my thumb is stuck!
mapboy: i don't know how to make a cross (stomps foot)
princess: oh...there is my thumb! now, i chase my bunny right?
around and around and around i go!!!
mom to mapboy: sweetie, just take this end and loop it through.
mapboy: there is no loop, i can't hold the end, i'm not going to do this!
princess: look!! i did it!!
(she had made a great attempt and i was proud of her)
can i try it again????
mapboy: more stomping of the foot, more shouts of frustration, i will never be able to do this. NEVER, I SAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ding ding ding...
princess: wait, i want to finish again!
mapboy: i'm going to my room
ME: this perfectionistic thing is absurd!!!!!! why won't he even just try?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
oh the joys of motherhood!!!
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